parental approval is all that matters. who cares abt the
relatives.... it's you who would live happily every after 
btw, TX has not meet my dad side relatives because they r so
gossipy and love to play 'games'. if only i can 'no' to invite
them. i even told my mom i dun them on red table but my mum being
always soooooo nice, gave in when my dad say to follow
tradition.